With his Celebration of Life just behind us and Christmas drawing near, there is no better time to express our family’s gratitude for the loyalty, encouragement and love shown to our husband and father (Mayor Jack) by his treasured friends here on Bowen. We gained strength and comfort from the many Islanders who rallied around him during his illness, and from those who reached out to us, sharing their thoughts and memories after his passing.
The outpouring of good wishes he received from his fellow Islanders made a huge difference in Jack’s battle. It was your understanding, compassion and honest conversation that buoyed his sense of humour through the most difficult days and sustained his fighting spirit as long as possible.
Jack was always a fighter – and as Bowen’s Mayor, our community became his all-consuming cause and passion. People called him “brave” some four years ago, when he decided to run for office. But for Jack it seemed a natural step, driven by his limitless optimism and a deep desire to give to the community. To put it simply -- Jack loved Bowen. Once in office, he was totally engaged, occupied with Bowen business and inter-government networking literally 24/7. As our son Jay remarked at the Celebration of Life, Jack’s service as Mayor became his raison d’etre. We were very much aware that his commitment to Bowen provided the motivation that kept his mind from his illness, and likely extended his life.
Among his many blessings, Jack valued friendships first. He would have been deeply moved to see such a large circle of friends gathered to celebrate his life in early December at the Legion. We, his family, were particularly touched by those who shared their memories.
Special thanks to Bill Pocklington, Jack’s friend and confidante, who insisted on planning the celebration to ensure he would have a proper Bowen send-off. Our sons, Alex and Jay, were given a very warm welcome by the community. We all appreciated the recollections of long-time friends Bob Bagshaw, Ian Townsend-Gault and Bruce Russell, each of whom captured a distinct aspect of Jack’s personal legacy. We’re especially grateful to MP John Weston, who made a special trip from Ottawa to Bowen for the occasion, and whose praise of Jack’s civic performance was a unique accolade from such a senior politician. But Jack would likely be proudest of the heartwarming tribute from Kathy Lalonde, who spoke of the loyalty, camaraderie, and productive teamwork he cultivated at Municipal Hall, and the esteem in which the entire staff held him.
In closing, we extend our thanks to all Bowen Islanders whose concern and unwavering support gave Jack the courage to face his illness. Your friendship inspired him in countless ways and continues to comfort our family, knowing that he will always be part of this community.
Maryon Adelaar
